Men ask, “What techniques do I use to please a woman?  How do I please a woman?

I’m going to loosely tell you a story.  The foundation of the story is based on an ancient Tale of the Tantrik Priestess.

A young man came to see the Tantrik Priestess, asking her, “What do I need to do to make a woman happy? What techniques do I need to know?”

The Priestess looking at the young man said, “There is no technique greater than understanding the lover’s attitude.”

The young man was disappointed thinking that he would be given steps on techniques to please a woman.  He did not understand what the Priestess meant by understanding the lover’s attitude.

The Priestess looked into the young man’s eyes and smiled.

Lightly touching the young man’s hand she said, “With these hands, I reach out to touch the places deep within you that have been hurt and shriveled up like a leaf closing to the harsh winds.”

Touching his cheek and looking deep into his eyes, she told him, “I use my hands to sooth the parts of you that were once shamed or wronged. I use these hands to hold you in all of the places in which you have been dropped, so you may begin to build trust again.  As I look at you, I see both aspects of your being.”

She continued to tell the young man, “I see your soul, in all it’s vastness.  I see your life-force in its fullness.  I see them without judgement.  I offer these hands to soften your armor and caress the scars.”

She then continued, “My hands are here to heal through pleasure. It’s not me doing the pleasure TO you. The pleasure is yours and I simply witness it.  If you can receive, then healing begins…”

“Never mind the technique,” she continued, “For now just develop the attitude of the lover.  The attitude itself will teach you the techniques.”

Author unknown.  To read the full story go to Divine Yoniverse Temple

When a woman knows that a man has taken the time to truly see her, then she is able to see the man.

When a woman is touched by the man and he feels her energy surrounding her, then she will be able to touch the man and feel his energy surrounding him.

When a woman knows she has been heard as she speaks her truth and tells him her heart’s desires, then she will be able to hear the man as he speaks his truth and reveals his deepest desires.

When a woman is allowed to begin to heal, then she will be open to helping the man heal as well.

To reach your lover, begin to learn the secrets of the lover’s attitude.  Once you do, she will want to learn the secrets of your attitude.  Love starts in the understanding of the heart.