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Sleep, sleep, where are you? by Janet Lynas, Ph.D., N.H.D.

Like many of you, I have those nights when sleep is elusive.  Most of the time if I don’t fall asleep within an hour, I get out of bed, read or do some other activity that’s quite boring.  Usually within a short time I find myself getting sleepy and I’m able to go back to bed and fall asleep.  But what happens to the body when sleep seems to have deserted you?

Causes of Insomnia
  • Stress. Our mind continues to think about work, school, health, finances and family issues making it impossible to stop the wheels in our imagination from turning at night.  Death or illness of a loved one, divorce, or a job loss also contributes to insomnia.
  • Travel or work schedule. Your circadian rhythm is an internal clock, regulating such things as your sleep and wake cycles, your metabolism and body temperature. Disrupting the body’s circadian rhythms can lead to insomnia. Some causes can include jet lag from traveling across time zones, working a late or early shift, or frequently changing shifts.  Shift work is high on the list contributing to lack of sleep.
  • Poor sleep habits. Remember the bedroom is for sleep and sex.  Keep other activities such as: using your bed for work, eating or watching TV out of the bedroom.  Using computers, TVs, video games, smartphones or other screens just before bed can interfere with your sleep cycle.  Keep them out of the bedroom if possible.
  • Eating too much late in the evening. Having a light snack before bedtime is usually not going to disturb your sleep, but eating too much may cause you to feel physically uncomfortable while lying down. Many people also experience heartburn, a backflow of acid and food from the stomach into the esophagus after eating, which may keep you awake.
Other Causes of Insomnia
  • Mental health disorders.  Insomnia often occurs with several mental health diagnoses including anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, and bipolar disorders may disrupt your sleep.  Wakening up too early can be a sign of depression. Insomnia often occurs with other mental health disorders as well.
  • Medications. Many prescription drugs can interfere with sleep.  Antidepressants, medications for asthma or blood pressure, over-the-counter medications for pain, allergy and cold medications, and weight-loss products containing caffeine and other stimulants that can disrupt sleep.
  • Medical conditions. Conditions associated with insomnia include chronic pain, cancer, diabetes, heart disease, asthma, gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD), overactive thyroid, Parkinson’s disease and Alzheimer’s disease.
  • Sleep-related disorders. Sleep apnea causes disruption in breathing periodically throughout the night which leads to the sleep cycle being interrupted. Restless legs syndrome causes unpleasant sensations in your legs and an almost irresistible desire to move them, which may prevent you from falling asleep.
  • Caffeine, nicotine and alcohol. Coffee, tea, cola and other caffeinated drinks are stimulants. Drinking them in the late afternoon or evening can keep you from falling asleep at night. Nicotine in tobacco products is another stimulant that can interfere with sleep. Alcohol may help you fall asleep, but it prevents deeper stages of sleep and often short circuits the sleep cycle causing you to wake in the middle of the night.
Aging and Sleep Changes
  • Changes in sleep patterns as we age. Sleep often becomes less restful as we age. We can become light sleepers causing noise or other changes in our environment to more easily wake us. With age, our internal clock often changes, causing us to get tired earlier in the evening and wake up earlier in the morning. But older people still need about the same amount of sleep as younger people do.
  • Changes in activity. We might become less physically or socially active. A lack of activity can interfere with a good night’s sleep. People who are less active, are more likely to take a daily nap, which can interfere with your sleep at night.
  • Changes in health. Chronic pain from conditions such as arthritis or back problems as well as depression or anxiety can interfere with sleep. Other body changes that interfere with sleep are increased need to urinate during the night such as prostate or bladder problems.
  • More medications. Older people often are on more prescription drugs than younger people, this can increase chances causing insomnia associated with medications.
Side effects of sleep deprivation
  • Lower performance on the job or at school
  • Slowed reaction time while driving and a higher risk of accidents
  • Mental health disorders, such as depression, an anxiety disorder or substance abuse
  • Increased risk and severity of long-term diseases or conditions, such as high blood pressure, stroke, and heart disease
What can you do to reduce insomnia?

Interestingly, raising the head of your bed about six inches can help.  Really?  Yes.  As it turns out, an English engineer, named Andrew Fletcher came up with the idea.  You see Mr. Fletcher observed in nature that plants and trees use the force of gravity to get the nutrients they need.  He realized that the human lymphatic system worked on the same theory to move fluids through the human body.  We know that laying flat on a surface will stagnate the fluids in the body.  So, if your head is inclined about six inches, the problem with stagnation is solved.

The movement of blood, lymph and cerebrospinal fluid while sleeping has the potential to heal and detox our bodies while we sleep.  So, maybe we need to consider raising the head of our beds by six inches.

Raising the head of the bed has been recommended for years for people with acid reflux.  It took an engineer thinking outside of the box to realize the other health benefits associated with elevation of the head of your bed.

So, try this simple remedy before you reach for the sleeping pills.  Actually sleeping pills have a limited use and in reality not a good long-term solution.

What do you fear? Failure or Success? by Janet Lynas, Ph.D., N.H.D.

We work hard to avoid failure, especially when it comes to our job.  One thinks about failure often.  If I try out this new idea and I fail, I will look like a fool.  I will not proceed with this new idea because I’m afraid I will fail and lose my job.

Self-Sabotage

Why is it that we decide we will fail before we even try out the new idea?  What about the fear of failure in romance?  People run from romance like a wild fire is behind them!  A broke heart is something that we can’t bear to think about, much less endure the pain that comes with failure and rejection.  What is the self-talk that you utter beneath your breath to yourself?  I’m not good enough.  That person couldn’t possibly love me, they are out of my class.

I AM not… smart enough, strong enough, pretty enough, worthy?  Is this what you are telling yourself?  Why are you shooting yourself in the foot before you even take the first step?

Fear of Success

I think people are more afraid of success than they are of failure.  After all, if one fails they can make up hundreds of excuses as to why they failed.  But, if one is successful that will take a certain amount of change.  You have to adapt to the new life style that comes with success and to the new responsibilities that come with it.

With success comes adapting to the expectations that others will have of you.  Success brings us out from the shadows into the spot light.  We tell ourselves how great life will be when success finally become a reality.

“No!  I’m not afraid of success!  I have struggled all my life trying to be successful!”

Really? What to rethink that last statement?

If an individual is not afraid of success, then why is it that we won’t move forward to improve our lives when the right tools for abundance are given to us?  What is the reason you will not take that first step to move forward in life?  Change is scary, it takes us out of our comfort zone.  The subconscious mind does not want change, it wants what it knows!

Take your health for example.  Your thirty pounds overweight, your blood pressure is too high, and you hurt!  To be triumphant will take some effort and to be honest, most of us are just too lazy to actually use the tools we are given to move forward.  We don’t want to do the work that goes with using theses tools to dig ourselves out of the rut we are in.

Hypnosis and the Subconscious Mind

Hypnosis is one of the tools in our shed of self-improvement.  What will it take to get you to pick up the phone and call a hypnotist?  After all, one only has to sit in a chair and relax and listen the hypnotist for an hour or so as the session is conducted.  How hard is that to do?  What excuses are you using to prevent improving you life?  Money?  Really?  Do you want to go there?  After all, you have the money to buy the junk food that is destroying your life.  The money is there when the urge comes to get that new tattoo.

When will you decide to make a positive investment in yourself?  Will it take a life threatening event to get you to move forward?

I think people are more afraid of success than they are of failure.  After all with success, comes change and people are more afraid of change.

So, what is your choice?

 

 

PTSD and hypnosis by Janet Lynas, Ph.D., N.H.D.

When I started my hypnosis practice in 2006, I thought that most of my clients would be for smoking cessation or weight loss.  You know the common things most people complain about.  Life has a way of taking one down unexpected roads.

Women and PTSD

I see women who are abused either physically or mentally in my hypnosis practice.  Recently, women with PTSD are the bulk of my practice.  One woman’s husband was poisonings her by putting a product that dissolves the sticky residue from price tags in her food.  He took out an insurance policy for a large sum of money and forgot to fill out all the paperwork.  The insurance company called her to ask her about the unanswered questions.  This inquiry from the insurance company put her on the trail to discovering that she was being poisoned.  Her doctor was alerted and was able to run the proper test to identify what was going on.  Had it not been for the insurance company calling her, the doctor would have continued to be baffled with her symptoms.

Women and memory loss with PTSD

I see battered woman and this is heartbreaking, but in recent months I am seeing more unusual situations with PTSD in women.  I’m working with a woman who was kidnapped when she was in her 20s.  One of the date rape drugs was put in her soda pop while she was playing a game of pool.  The next thing she knew, she woke up in a strange place and had no idea where she was or how she got there.  She was held hostage for a year before she was able to get away.

She traveled from another state by bus to see me for hypnosis.  For over 20 years she has struggled with trying to remember events during that time frame.  I regressed her back to the event to help her remember what she thought she had blocked from her memory.  She was drugged during her capture on a regular bases.  As it turns out, she does remember what happened to her.  Those times that she thought she could not remember are times of being drugged.

What’s next in her recovery?

I will conduct a follow up session with her soon.  In this session, I will help her come to terms with what happened to her.  I will help her reconnect with her younger self and she will begin to heal herself.  In this session, she will find the peace of mind that she so desperately needs.  I’m trained in regression hypnosis and hold an advanced certification in regression therapy.

It’s always amazing to me to watch each individual as they began to heal during the hypnosis session.  The healing unfolds as I am observing the client work through the process.  I expect to see this woman have the resolution she needs to put this trauma behind her once and for all.  Hypnosis is a valuable tool in the recovery of PTSD.  I’m privileged to have individuals to trust me to help them through this journey in their recovery.

 

Are You Grounded? What Does That Mean? by Janet Lynas, Ph.D., N.H.D.

 

We hear the words, “stay grounded” quite often.  What does that really mean?   I am grounded, is a term used in metaphysical circles that tells us we are connected to the earth.  Is that what we really want to do?

Definition of Grounding

A spiritual definition tells us, the term grounding refers to having your personal spiritual energy connected to the energy of the earth.  We are often told to imagine our energy penetrating deep into the earth.  The instructions are, imagine your energy being like that of the roots of a tree, reaching deep into the earth to hold us in alignment with Mother Earth’s energy.

Another definition, is the disciplinary action a parent takes with a definite child.

Being Grounded in Mother Earth

I have given a great deal of thought to this concept of being grounded into the earth.  In recent weeks with all the energy changes going on in the universe, I have found that my personal spiritual energy has changed.

The transition was a difficult one for me.  I struggled with physical symptoms of headache, nausea, change in the frequency in the pitch of ringing in my ears, and at times a little dizziness.  All I wanted to do was sleep.  It actually turned out to be a three week process of ascension for me that was draining at times.  I went into a hermit mode and allowed the growth to progress at its own pace.  Once I disconnected from social media, I rested.

Throughout this process I thought about staying grounded to the earth’s energy.  My vibrational frequency has changed.  I feel lighter in my energy field and I quite like it.  My innate abilities have expanded and grown.  Understanding how my abilities have changed is an interesting development as well.  I will not go into detail on my personal growth in this posting.  My vibration reached a higher frequency.  I am longer tied to the earth.

What is the alternative?

Earthing took on a new meaning for me.  I am able to move forward in my growth and development as a spiritual being when I’m not anchored.  One can be connected to Gaia without extending spiritual roots deep into the planet’s energy.   Above all, it’s being balanced within ourselves that’s the most important thing one needs to remember.

As you ascend to higher vibrational levels, your energy requirements will change.  Also, as your energy becomes lighter, the vibration frequency becomes faster.  I found that as I have ascended in my personal growth, I no longer want to be grounded into Gaia.  I don’t want to be stuck in one place and stagnant.  I like reaching for the higher vibrational frequencies.

As you ascend in your development, you may find that you no longer want to be grounded as well.